When I was planning my own wedding (a "few" years ago, cough cough), I went to one of those large wedding shows. You know, the ones in the giant convention hall, with hundreds of vendors and thousands of attendees. It was an overwhelming nightmare of crowds and disinterested vendors, and everywhere, visions of weddings that didn't match my own. I left without booking anything and felt disgusted afterwards with the emails about "how great it was to meet me" - when I'd never spoken to these people at all!

